TANA NOONAN, LMFT, EMDR-C

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THERAPY FOR RELATIONSHIPS IN TEMECULA, CA & ONLINE

Connect authentically with yourself & others.

You’ve spent so long trying not to be ‘too much’—now you’re wondering if you’ll ever feel like “enough”.

If your relationships leave you feeling drained, confused, or like you’re always the one doing the work—you’re not alone.

You’re tired of feeling stuck in these relationship traps:

  • Feeling anxious when you get close to someone—or when they get too close to you.

  • Playing out the same relationship patterns again and again (even when you know better).

  • Becoming the “fixer”, the “pleaser”, the one who absorbs everyone else’s emotions.

  • Feeling like your needs are "too much," "too messy," or just… not safe to name.

You’ve tried to be easy to love. Easy to be around. But now, all that work is showing up as exhaustion, resentment, and a quiet question: What about me?

I WANT YOU TO KNOW:

You don’t have to choose between being loved & being yourself.

HOW I CAN HELP:

Let’s empower you to create relationships that actually feel good.

My approach to relationship therapy is grounded in a deep understanding of attachment theory to explore how past experiences shape your current relationships.

I integrate nervous system awareness to foster emotional regulation and presence, and create a safe, affirming space where your authentic self is celebrated.

Together we can address:

  • Attachment wounds and relationship trauma

  • People-pleasing, codependency, and emotional burnout

  • Difficulty with boundaries and communication

  • Repeating painful patterns in dating, friendship, or family

  • Navigating estrangement, breakups, or relational grief

Lets Make This Simple:

Reach Out

Book a free 15-minute call so we can figure out the best next steps for you.

Get To Work

We’ll map out your relationship patterns and begin reconnecting you to your own voice and needs.

See Change

Start creating boundaries, intimacy, and trust from a place of clarity and self-trust.

I’m here to help with all of life’s relationships.

  • Romantic partners

  • Parents & siblings

  • Extended family

  • Coworkers & bosses

  • Friends

Get the support that’s right for you.

IMAGINE…

Feeling grounded, confident and supported in your relationships

Communicating your needs clearly—without guilt, over-explaining, or shutting down.

Trusting yourself to choose people who are good for you

No more shrinking yourself to keep the peace.

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